I am committing to staying pure til marrige, not letting the world get in the way is how to prevent from temptation. Everything you see has some sort of effect on you. Mind, body, or, soul. You can stay pure by keeping God first in a relationship. If you have a great girlfriend such as myself, I believe it is a smart thing that once you get serious you set some standards and work together to reach a purpose. Some of those standards should be...
1. Put GOD first.
2. Pray for your standards that u and ur girlfriend set.
3. Standards.
Never put yourselfs in compromising situations.
Never sneak in her house to be with her.
Never ditch friends for alone time.
Never push the one you love to far into temptation.
Never lay down and do anything, not even homework or movies.
Never close a door.
Never turn a light off to make it dark.
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Always be aware of where you are going.
Always have a back up plan.
Always RESPECT your girlfriend, IF you LOVE here you will.
Always give them words of encouragement, such as, I love you or how pretty they look but dont use words like hot or sexy they can be degrading to girls.
Always put GOD first no matter what.
Always have someone to talk to about your temptations and have them pray for you. Have someone to hold you accountable.
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It is our job to help this generation and get them to where they need to be. We need to have the courage to talk to others and address our problems and how to solve them and that things are not always as easy as they seem. For guys its especially hard for us to keep our mind clean of crap the world puts in it. Now i am not taking away from girls because you may feel the same, but im a guy, i know how it is for us to get easily wrapped up in the world and take it back to a special relationship with a special person. It will ruin it if you dont get God in it and fix it.
Colossians 3:15-17
15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
This verse simply means whatever you do, do it for the lord.
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it."
This verse is saying that God isn't going to tempt us beyond what we can handle.
These to verses are going to help my relationship and your but what you have to do is quit trying to do things yourself and rely on Gods help to keep you from un Godly things of this world, You cant do things on your own. Trust me, I know.
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